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Halal sex : the intimate lives of Muslim women in North America  Cover Image Book Book

Halal sex : the intimate lives of Muslim women in North America / Sheima Benembarek ; foreword by Mona Eltahawy.

Benembarek, Sheima, (author.). Eltahawy, Mona, 1967- (writer of foreword.).

Summary:

"This unprecedented and compassionate glimpse into the sex lives of seven Muslim women across North America brings a hushed conversation out into the open. Sheima Benembarek's parents never gave her the "the talk." When she left Morocco to go to university in Montreal, she was completely unprepared to navigate an open and active sex life outside of marriage, considered haram within the Muslim world. Now, many years later, she's all too aware of how common this is among immigrants and the children of immigrants living on a more sexually liberated continent. She set out to eliminate the taboo, interviewing Muslims from of a variety of locations, ethnicities, Islamic sects, and socioeconomic backgrounds about a host of topics, from masturbation and hymens to sex work and BDSM. Halal Sex is the culmination of these conversations, distilled into seven rich and compelling stories. Among the subjects are Hind, a niqabi in a polygynous marriage; Azar, a non-binary trans Sufi; Taslim, a virgin in her forties struggling to erect healthy boundaries with her family; and Eman, a lesbian stand-up comic in an interfaith marriage. With great care and thoughtfulness, Benembarek reveals a tapestry of diverse Islam and of individuals forging a path forward, each in their own way: overcoming shame, filling in educational gaps, balancing familial pressures, pushing back against sexism and patriarchy, and--ultimately--prioritizing their own happiness and pleasure."-- Provided by publisher.

Record details

  • ISBN: 9780735244221 (trade paperback)
  • Physical Description: xii, 220 pages ; 21 cm
  • Publisher: Toronto, ON : Viking Canada, 2023.
Subject: Muslim women > Sexual behavior > North America > Anecdotes.
Muslim women > Sexual behavior > North America.
Muslim women > North America > Social life and customs.

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  • 1 of 1 copy available at Tsuga Consortium.

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