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Get the f*ck out your own way : a guide to letting go of the sh*t that's holding you back / MJ Harris.

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"It ain't easy being grown-this life shit is hard. Hugely popular social media personality MJ Harris is the go-to person for over four million viewers across YouTube, Facebook, TikTok, and Instagram, for hilarious, straightforward, raw advice about everything you need to know about getting your sh*t together in life-whether it's fixing your relationships, situationships, money or frenemies, MJ offers sage advice about how to get out of your own way. This book is a guide to getting rid of the emotional trash and trauma you've been sitting on for years. No one ever taught you how to properly handle the hurt and anger you've experienced in your past, so bet your ass Get The F*ck Out Your Own Way will. To change your life, what's gotta change is your mindset. If any of this sounds like you, this book is for you! Your relationships (or lack thereof) aren't fulfilling; You're alive but living an unfulfilled life; Your work life is in a rut and you can't find your way out of it; Your money just isn't where you want it to be; The toxic people in your family think you're somehow their permanent emotional punching bag; You're a "people pleaser" that has not yet learned how to effectively say no. MJ Harris tells it like it is in a book of no holds barred principles that will help you disrupt cycles of trauma and transform into a pillar of emotional wholeness. From boundary setting with family to fairness in romantic partnerships, MJ makes it abundantly clear that when your inner life flourishes, your outer well-being flows. Get The F*ck Out Your Own Way is the confidence booster you need to make better decisions and to set you on the right path for a satisfying, happy life once and for all"-- Provided by publisher.

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  • ISBN: 9780306829222 (hardcover)
  • Physical Description: viii, 289 pages ; 22 cm
  • Edition: First edition.
  • Publisher: New York : Legacy Lit, 2024.

Content descriptions

Formatted Contents Note:
Introduction : don't be original, be effective -- Own your shit -- Change your shit -- Stop people pleasing and know your worth -- You gotta give others your guidebook -- Don't chase people-know when to end it -- Rejection is protection -- Dealing with the emotionally unavailable -- Do you even want a relationship, or do you just think you do? -- Embracing your masculine and feminine energies + my partner's sexual orientation-examining our biases -- Top drawer yourself -- Find your core competency -- Life ain't fair, but you can still get your money -- Don't go broke trying to impress people -- Survivor's remorse-be unapologetic about protecting yourself and your money -- Stop being so needy -- Stop trying to fit in -- Am I an asshole? -- It's okay to protect yourself -- Conclusion : you are enough.
Subject: Goal (Psychology)
Self-actualization (Psychology)
Self-realization.

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  • Baker & Taylor
    "It ain't easy being grown-this life shit is hard. Hugely popular social media personality MJ Harris is the go-to person for over four million viewers across YouTube, Facebook, TikTok, and Instagram, for hilarious, straightforward, raw advice about everything you need to know about getting your sh*t together in life-whether it's fixing your relationships, situationships, money or frenemies, MJ offers sage advice about how to get out of your own way. This book is a guide to getting rid of the emotional trash and trauma you've been sitting on for years. No one ever taught you how to properly handle the hurt and anger you've experienced in your past, so bet your ass Get The F*ck Out Your Own Way will. To change your life, what's gotta change is your mindset. If any of this sounds like you, this book is for you! -Your relationships (or lack thereof) aren't fulfilling -You're alive but living an unfulfilled life -Your work life is in a rut and you can't find your way out of it -Your money just isn't where youwant it to be -The toxic people in your family think you're somehow their permanent emotional punching bag -You're a "people pleaser" that has not yet learned how to effectively say no MJ Harris tells it like it is in a book of no holds barred principlesthat will help you disrupt cycles of trauma and transform into a pillar of emotional wholeness. From boundary setting with family to fairness in romantic partnerships, MJ makes it abundantly clear that when your inner life flourishes, your outer well-being flows. Get The F*ck Out Your Own Way is the confidence booster you need to make better decisions and to set you on the right path for a satisfying, happy life once and for all"--
  • Baker & Taylor
    An internationally recognized lifestyle and business influencer offers humorous and straightforward advice for getting your act together and living your best life whether the help you need is in the area of finances, relationships or your career.
  • Grand Central Pub
    An Amazon Editors Pick

    “You can trust him.” --Tabitha Brown


    IT AIN’T EASY GETTING YOUR SHIT TOGETHER 
    THIS BOOK IS THE SOLUTION

    If any of this sounds like you, it’s best you start reading this book now!
    • You seek more fulfilling relationships and dating experiences
    • You’re ready to shake off shame about past mistakes and step into your power
    • You want to say “see ya” to the toxic people and emotional gut-punchers
    • Your “people pleaser” days are over and it’s time to learn how to effectively say no
    MJ Harris has got a lot of “best friends”—over five million to be exact. His hilarious, straightforward, raw advice has made him the go-to person across social media for everything you need to know about getting your shit together. 
     
    He knows you need help—whether financial, spiritual, or in a relationship—because you never learned how to properly handle the hurt and anger you’ve experienced in the past, it has become the emotional trash in the way of being your best self. Don’t nobody want that!
     
    Whether it’s fixing your family issues, situationships, money, or frenemies, MJ offers sage advice about how to stop blocking yourself from bigger and better things.
     
    This isn’t your gentle guide on breathing or journaling. MJ serves up no holds barred advice on how to navigate your emotions that will help you disrupt cycles of trauma, create boundaries, and transform into a goddess of emotional wholeness. Get the F*ck Out Your Own Way will help you learn how to make better choices and decisions. It will set you on the right path for a happier emotional life once and for all.

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