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How women rise : break the 12 habits holding you back from your next raise, promotion, or job / by Helgesen, Sally,1948-author.; Goldsmith, Marshall,author.;
Subjects: Self-help publications.; Success in business.; Businesswomen; Career development.; Women; Self-actualization (Psychology) in women.; Self-realization in women.;
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Fawning : why the need to please makes us lose ourselves -- and how to find our way back / by Clayton, Ingrid,1974-author.;
"From a clinical psychologist and expert in complex trauma recovery comes a powerful guide introducing fawning, an often-overlooked piece of the fight-flight-freeze reaction to trauma -- explaining what it is, why it happens, and how to help survivors regain their voice and sense of self. Most of us are familiar with the three F's of trauma -- fight, flight, or freeze. But psychologists have identified a fourth, extremely common (yet little-understood) response: fawning. Often conflated with "codependency" or "people-pleasing," fawning occurs when we inexplicably draw closer to a person or relationship that causes pain, rather than pulling away. Do you apologize to people who have hurt you? Ignore their bad behavior? Befriend your bullies? Obsess about saying the right thing? Make yourself into someone you're not ... while seeking approval that may never come? You might be a fawner. Fawning explains why we stay in bad jobs, fall into unhealthy partnerships, and tolerate dysfunctional environments, even when it seems so obvious to others that we should go. And though fawning serves a purpose -- it's an ingenious protective strategy in unsafe situations -- it's a problem if it becomes a repetitive, compulsory reaction in our daily lives. But here's the good news: we can break the pattern of chronic fawning, once we see it for the trauma response it is. Drawing on twenty years of clinical psychology work -- as well as a lifetime of experience as a recovering fawner herself -- Dr. Ingrid Clayton demonstrates WHY we fawn, HOW to recognize the signs of fawning (including taking blame, conflict avoidance, hypervigilance, and caretaking at the expense of ourselves), and WHAT we can do to successfully "unfawn" and finally be ourselves, in all our imperfect perfection"-- Provided by publisher.
Subjects: Interpersonal relations.; Psychic trauma.; Stress (Psychology);
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Chasing the light : writing, directing, and surviving Platoon, Midnight express, Scarface, Salvador, and the movie game / by Stone, Oliver,author.;
"An intimate memoir by the controversial, Oscar-winning director and screenwriter about his privileged New York upbringing, volunteering for combat, and his struggles and triumphs making such landmark films as Platoon, Midnight Express, and Scarface"--
Subjects: Autobiographies.; Biographies.; Stone, Oliver.; Motion picture producers and directors;
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Cannon [graphic novel] / by Lai, Lee,1993-author,illustrator.;
We arrive to a wreckage--a restaurant smashed to rubble, with tables and chairs upended riotously. Under the swampy nighttime cover of a Montreal heat-wave, this is where we meet our protagonist, Cannon, dripping in little beads of regret sweat. She was supposed to be closing the restaurant for the night, but instead, well, she destroyed it. The mess feels a bit like a horror-scape-not unlike the horror films Cannon and her best friend, Trish, watch together. Cooking dinner and digging into deep cuts of Australian horror films on their scheduled weekly hangs has become the glue in their rote relationship. In high school, they were each other's lifeline--two queer second-generation Chinese nerds trapped in the suburbs. Now, on the uncool side of their twenties, the essentialness of one another feels harder to pin down. Yet, when our stoic and unbendingly well-behaved Cannon finds herself--very uncharacteristically--surrounded by smashed plates, it is Trish who shows up to pull her the hell outta there. In Cannon, Lee Lai's much anticipated follow-up to Stone Fruit, the full palette of a nervous breakdown is just a slice of what Lai has on offer. As Cannon's shoulders bend under the weight of an aging Gung-gung and an avoidant mother, Lai's sharp sense of humor and sensitive eye produce a story that will hit readers with a smash.
Subjects: Graphic novels.; Psychological comics.; Queer comics.; Children of noncitizens; Female friendship; Horror films; Mental illness; Restaurants; Sexual minorities; Young women;
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Happily ever after on Huckleberry Hill / by Beckstrand, Jennifer,author.;
Subjects: Christian fiction.; Religious fiction.; Recipes.; Novels.; Amish; Man-woman relationships; Sisters; Twins;
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Summer reading / by McKinlay, Jenn,author.;
"When a woman who'd rather do anything than read meets a swoon-worthy bookworm, sparks fly, making for one hot-summer fling in New York Times bestselling author Jenn McKinlay's new rom-com. For Samantha Gale, a summer on Martha's Vineyard at her family's tiny cottage was supposed to be about resurrecting her career as a chef, until she's tasked with chaperoning her half-brother, Tyler. The teenage brainiac is spending his summer at the local library in a robotics competition, and there's no place Sam, who's dyslexic, likes less than the library. And because the universe hates her, the library's interim director turns out to be the hot-reader guy whose book she accidentally destroyed on the ferry ride to the island. Bennett Reynolds is on a quest to find his father, whose identity he's never known. He's taken the temporary job on the island to research the summer his mother spent there when she got pregnant with him. Ben tells himself he isn't interested in a relationship right now. Yet as soon as Sam knocks his book into the ocean, he can't stop thinking about her. An irresistible attraction blossoms when Ben inspires Sam to create the cookbook she's always dreamed about and she jumps all in on helping him find his father, and soon they realize their summer fling may heat up into a happily ever after"--
Subjects: Romance fiction.; Recipes.; Novels.; Dyslexia; Cooks; Man-woman relationships;
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The food lover's cleanse : 140 delicious, nourishing recipes that will tempt you back into healthful eating / by Dickerman, Sara,1971-; Graydon, Michael.; Herriott, Nikole.;
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Subjects: Detoxification (Health); Detoxification (Health); Self-care, Health.; Cookbooks.;
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The thyroid connection : why you feel tired, brain-fogged, and overweight--and how to get your life back / by Myers, Amy(Physician),author.;
Includes bibliographical references and index.
Subjects: Thyroid gland;
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Facing fear : step out in faith and rise above what's holding you back / by Wallenda, Nik,author.; Yaeger, Don,author.;
Includes bibliographical references."Most of us will never walk a tightrope, but we face things that scare us every day. Whether putting ourselves out there socially or seeking a dream job, all of us allow anxieties and fears to hold us back. Facing Fear is a reader-centric memoir, interweaving parts of Nik's personal story of the accident and how he conquered his fear with practical advice for readers to overcome whatever fears are holding them back. This practical book will help everyday people step out in faith and trust that God will hold them steady, even when they're afraid"--
Subjects: Self-help publications.; Wallenda, Nik; Fear; Courage; Worry; Aerialists;
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Citizen farmers : the biodynamic way to grow healthy food, build thriving communities, and give back to the earth / by Joffe, Daron.; Puckett, Susan,1956-; Allen, Rinne,1973-;
Includes Internet addresses and index.LSC
Subjects: Organic gardening.; Organic farming.; Sustainable agriculture.;
© 2014., Stewart, Tabori & Chang,
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