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How to stop destroying your relationships : a guide to enjoyable dating, mating, and relating / by Ellis, Albert,1913-2007.; Harper, Robert A.,1915-2004.; Ellis, Albert,1913-2007.Dating, mating, and relating.;
Includes bibliographical references and index.LSC
Subjects: Interpersonal relations.; Man-woman relationships.; Mate selection.; Intimacy (Psychology); Dating (Social customs); Rational emotive behavior therapy.;
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The clarion / by Dunic, Nina,author.;
Peter plays the trumpet and works in a kitchen; Stasi tries to climb the corporate ladder and lands in therapy. These sensitive siblings struggle to find their place in the world, seeking intimacy and belonging -- or trying to escape it. A promising audition, a lost promotion, intriguing strangers and clubbing hippies, a silent lover and a grieving neighbour -- in rich, sensual scenes and moody brilliance, 'The Clarion' explores rituals of connection and belonging, themes of intimacy and performance, and how far we wander to find, or lose, our sense of self.
Subjects: Psychological fiction.; Novels.; Siblings; Self-actualization (Psychology); Belonging (Social psychology);
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Sextinction : The Decline of Sex and the Future of Intimacy. by Soh, Debra.;
Theres a strange paradox in todays developed world: society has never been more sexualized, but people across all age groups and demographics are having less sex than ever before. And nobody seems to know why or what to do about it. In 'Sextinction', Dr. Debra Soh leaves no stone unturned as she searches for science-backed answers. She takes us on a roller-coaster journey through ideological debates, new technological frontiers, and modern dating to understand the whys and hows of this issue. Soh lives in Toronto, ON.Library Bound Incorporated
Subjects: POLITICAL SCIENCE / Commentary & Opinion; PSYCHOLOGY / Human Sexuality; SOCIAL SCIENCE / Human Sexuality;
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The ADHD Field Guide for Adults. by Osborn, Cate.;
With roughly eight million adults living with ADHD and more people seeking and receiving diagnoses each year, 'The ADHD Field Guide for Adults' is a practical guide to living with ADHD in adulthood, from two people who know what its like. Featuring the most important foundational information about ADHD, it also explores issues that are rarely discussed, such as navigating sex and intimacy, the healthcare system, and home care.Library Bound Incorporated
Subjects: FAMILY & RELATIONSHIPS / Attention Deficit Disorder (ADD-ADHD); HEALTH & FITNESS / Mental Health; PSYCHOLOGY / Psychopathology / Attention-Deficit Disorder (ADD-ADHD); SELF-HELP / Self-Management / General;
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The game of desire : 5 surprising secrets to dating with dominance-- and getting what you want / by Boodram, Shannon T.,author.;
Includes bibliographical references.Women: gain control and confidence in your love lives and find the relationship you want with this modern, life-changing guide from the certified sex educator, intimacy expert, and YouTube personality. For younger generations, dating is a complicated mystery. Apps like Tinder and Bumble are supposed to foster connection, but instead serve as a reminder of how painfully single we are. Certified sexologist and intimacy coach Shan Boodram-the most sought-after sex educator on the internet-is about to change all that. In this essential how-to guide, she addresses the realities of life today-when the rules of love and attraction are fluid-and teaches a group of young women how to become master daters in just sixty days. It starts with you. Shan makes clear that love and self-discovery go hand in hand-your dating life is just as much about you as it is about other people. She challenges you to look inside yourself for what you want out of a partner, a relationship and, most important, yourself. Once you figure out what you want from dating, she shows you exactly how to get it. The Game of Desire empowers you to take the lead, learn your strengths, and identify and correct your weaknesses, all the while getting inspired watching a group of women learn how to succeed in today's dating pool. While many books tell women why they can't get a date, Shan teaches you the skills and techniques necessary to take charge in today's competitive and often confusing dating scene, providing the tools essential to attract-and retain-the partner(s) you want. From learning love languages to debunking dating myths, she helps women build knowledge and confidence. Featuring conversational case studies, comprehensive facts about the psychology of sex and romance, and expert insight into sex culture, and written with her trademark humor and charm,The Game of Desire is a must for all of Shan's fans and for every woman struggling to feel loved and desired.
Subjects: Self-help publications.; Dating (Social customs); Mate selection.; Single women; Man-woman relationships.; Sex (Psychology); Dominance (Psychology);
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Us : getting past you & me to build a more loving relationship / by Real, Terrence,author.; Springsteen, Bruce,writer of foreword.;
Includes bibliographical references and index."You've probably heard some variation of the idea that before you can love someone else, you first have to learn to love yourself. Renowned family therapist and marriage counselor and bestselling author Terrence Real says that we've got it all wrong. In fact, the way to save your relationship is not by working on yourself, but instead by working together. Continuing to focus on yourself will just feed the problem, which is that most of us developed a set of techniques to survive our families that no longer serve us as adults. You can learn to tap into your wiser, more collaborative self. In this groundbreaking book, Real offers a new set of science-backed relational skills that have saved real marriages on the brink. Using psychology, history, and stories of actual couples who have entered his office, Real helps readers move beyond their traumas and stressors and shift from thinking in terms of me and you to a different consciousness. The consciousness of us. The Hail Mary family therapist for couples on the verge of divorce, Real teaches us how to speak up for ourselves with love and build solid, loving relationships that are authentic and interdependent"--
Subjects: Couples; Interpersonal conflict.; Interpersonal relations.; Man-woman relationships.; Married people;
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A month in Siena / by Matar, Hisham,1970-author.;
"After finishing his powerful memoir The Return, Hisham Matar, seeking solace and pleasure, traveled to Siena, Italy. Always finding comfort and clarity in great art, Matar immersed himself in eight significant works from the Sienese School of painting, which flourished from the thirteenth to the fifteenth centuries. Artists whom he had admired throughout his life, such as Duccio and Ambrogio Lorenzetti, evoke earlier engagements he has had with works by Caravaggio and Poussin, and the personal experiences that surrounded those moments. Complete with gorgeous full-color reproductions of the artworks, A Month in Siena is about what occurred between Matar, those paintings, and the city. That month would be an extraordinary period in Matar's life: an exploration of how art can console and disturb in equal measure, as well as an intimate encounter with the city and its inhabitants. This is a gorgeous meditation on how centuries-old art can illuminate our own inner landscape-- current relationships, long-lasting love, grief, intimacy, and solitude-- and shed further light on the present world around us"--
Subjects: Matar, Hisham, 1970-; Matar, Hisham, 1970-; Art; Authors, American; Painting, Italian;
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No holes barred : a dual manifesto of sexual exploration and power / by Mandii B,author.; Tempest X,author.; WeezyWTF,author.;
Includes bibliographical references.Mandii B and WeezyWTF, hosts of the Decisions, Decisions (formerly known as WHOREible Decisions) podcast, deliver a bold, unfiltered, and raw, sex-positive collection of relatable tales. They tackle everything from pleasure to pain and the journey of healing through progression to reclaim your personal and sexual power. A provocative and playful exploration that aims to destigmatize kink while educating, inspiring, and promoting sexual and mental health. Thoughtful, painfully honest, and, at times, hilarious, this book offers longtime fans of the podcast and curious newcomers a deep dive into sexual mores, along with answers to the most burning questions Mandii and Weezy have been asked, including: how can women embrace and own their sexuality without apology or shame?; how can you tell when a relationship has run its course?; what's the best way to forgive ourselves for our reckless choices in our youth?; and how do we stay grounded while balancing the desire to "have it all"? Perfect for fans of Come as You Are and Smart Sex, No Holes Barred offers a bold, modern perspective on the timeless dynamics of intimacy and sex.
Subjects: Self-help publications.; Bondage (Sexual behavior); Dating (Social customs); Fetishism (Sexual behavior); Sex (Psychology); Sex customs.; Sex.; Sexual dominance and submission.; Women;
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Fight right : how successful couples turn conflict into connection / by Gottman, Julie Schwartz,author.; Gottman, John Mordechai,author.;
Includes bibliographical references."Conflict is the top reason couples seek help-but it's also an opportunity for greater intimacy, deeper connection, and lasting love according to this essential guide from the world's leading relationship scientists and bestselling authors of The Seven Principles of Making Marriage Work"--
Subjects: Conflict management.; Couples therapy.; Couples; Interpersonal communication.; Interpersonal relations.;
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Possessed / by Bydlowska, Jowita,author.;
Josephine is obsessed. Or possessed -- by unrequited love for a younger man who doesn't promise anything, but who gives her a taste of intimacy that puts her on the brink of losing her mind. Oscillating between her elusive lover and her older former partner, stuck in the hell that is working in a cubicle, and obliged to tend to her destructive, senile mother, Josephine is trapped. After a work assignment promises to deliver distraction, Josephine makes a decision to visit a former quarantine island in the Adriatic Sea, where she meets an enigmatic, beautiful man with a haunting story. Intimate and erotic, Possessed is a dark and funny story exploring sexual obsession, mental illness, and the supernatural.
Subjects: Psychological fiction.; Novels.; Interpersonal relations; Man-woman relationships; Mothers and daughters; Sex addiction; Triangles (Interpersonal relations); Women;
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