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Fawning : why the need to please makes us lose ourselves -- and how to find our way back / by Clayton, Ingrid,1974-author.;
"From a clinical psychologist and expert in complex trauma recovery comes a powerful guide introducing fawning, an often-overlooked piece of the fight-flight-freeze reaction to trauma -- explaining what it is, why it happens, and how to help survivors regain their voice and sense of self. Most of us are familiar with the three F's of trauma -- fight, flight, or freeze. But psychologists have identified a fourth, extremely common (yet little-understood) response: fawning. Often conflated with "codependency" or "people-pleasing," fawning occurs when we inexplicably draw closer to a person or relationship that causes pain, rather than pulling away. Do you apologize to people who have hurt you? Ignore their bad behavior? Befriend your bullies? Obsess about saying the right thing? Make yourself into someone you're not ... while seeking approval that may never come? You might be a fawner. Fawning explains why we stay in bad jobs, fall into unhealthy partnerships, and tolerate dysfunctional environments, even when it seems so obvious to others that we should go. And though fawning serves a purpose -- it's an ingenious protective strategy in unsafe situations -- it's a problem if it becomes a repetitive, compulsory reaction in our daily lives. But here's the good news: we can break the pattern of chronic fawning, once we see it for the trauma response it is. Drawing on twenty years of clinical psychology work -- as well as a lifetime of experience as a recovering fawner herself -- Dr. Ingrid Clayton demonstrates WHY we fawn, HOW to recognize the signs of fawning (including taking blame, conflict avoidance, hypervigilance, and caretaking at the expense of ourselves), and WHAT we can do to successfully "unfawn" and finally be ourselves, in all our imperfect perfection"-- Provided by publisher.
Subjects: Interpersonal relations.; Psychic trauma.; Stress (Psychology);
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The secret fawn / by George, K.(Kallie),1983-; MacKay, Elly.;
A little girl feels like she is missing out on so much because she is the youngest and littlest in her family.LSC
Subjects: Youngest child; Birth order; Deer; Fawns; Families;
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Ontario Land Registry Office records : a research guide. by Stratford-Devai, Fawne.;
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Fawn's blood : a novel / by Schrieve, Hal,author.;
When Silver goes missing, his best friend Fawn sets out to find him and crosses paths with Rachel, a newly turned vampire with a vampire-hunting mother, and together, the two teens become entangled in a blood-soaked resistance against vampire slayers and anti-trans violence as they navigate love, identity, and survival in a world that wants them erased.015-017.Grades 10-12.
Subjects: Young adult fiction.; Transgender fiction.; Queer fiction.; Vampire fiction.; Paranormal fiction.; Fantasy fiction.; Novels.; Missing persons; Toleration; Transgender people; Vampires; Missing persons; Toleration; Transgender people; Vampires;
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Hi, it's me : a novel / by Parker, Fawn,1994-author.;
'Women Talking' meets 'Study for Obedience' in this stunning depiction of fresh grief. Shortly after her mother's death, Fawn arrives at her mother's farmhouse, which is also occupied by four other women. Wrestling with compulsive and harmful behaviours, Fawn is confronted with the reality of her mother's death and soon becomes fixated on archiving her mother's writing and documents, searching for signs, and drawing tenuous connections to help her understand more about the enigmatic woman in the pages.
Subjects: Psychological fiction.; Novels.; Grief; Mothers and daughters; Women;
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Zoe and the fawn / by Jameson, Catherine.; Flett, Julie.;
An adventure begins when Zoe finds a lone fawn in the forest and helps search for its mother. But who could the mother be? A bunny? A fish? Join Zoe and her father as they encounter many woodland animals and learn their Native names along the way. The tale is simple yet charming. Zoe's inquisitive nature is endearing, as is her father's gentle patience. And as Zoe encounters various animals, their Okanagan (Syilx) names appear in the text. These Okanagan words add to the educational value of the story, but they do not interrupt the flow of the narrative for non-Okanagan readers.LSC
Subjects: Fathers and daughters; Forests and forestry; Fawns;
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Baby deer / by Kalman, Bobbie.;
Deer and their fawns, or babies, live in forests across North America. Children will be delighted by the wonderful photographs in this simple introduction to these loveable hoofed animals. Easy-to-understand text explains how a fawn is born, how the color and spots on its coat help camouflage it in the forest, and how some mothers care for their fawns for up to two years. Beautiful images feature white-tailed deer and mule deer and introduce a few lesser-known deer, such as pudus, which are the smallest deer in the world!LSC
Subjects: Fawns; Deer;
© c2008., Crabtree Pub.,
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Kate & Pippin : an unlikely love story / by Springett, Martin.; Springett, Isobel.;
Pippin, an abandoned fawn, is found by photographer Isobel Springett. She places the fawn next to Kate, her Great Dane who has never had puppies of her own. The friendship that follows is truly extraordinary.LSC
Subjects: Great Dane; Fawns; Parental behavior in animals;
© 2012., Penguin Group,
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Kate & Pippin : an unlikely friendship / by Springett, Martin.; Springett, Isobel.;
Photographs and simple text reveal the true story of a fawn which, abandoned by her mother and brought to live on a farm, is raised by Kate, a Great Dane which has never had puppies of her own.LSC
Subjects: Great Dane; Fawns; Parental behavior in animals;
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To tell you the truth : a novel / by Macmillan, Gilly,author.;
The disappearance of her fawningly dependent husband catapults best-selling mystery writer Lucy Harper into dark memories about her brother who went missing under suspicious circumstances thirty years earlier.
Subjects: Thrillers (Fiction); Psychological fiction.; Women novelists; Missing persons;
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